look backward into past to create a sense of continuity
abstract process
nothing is really learned until the process is really over. 體驗
rooted in solar plexus
undefined
end up exhausted, energy drew by others
defined
you generate your own wave
Universal ideas and values in an ordered framework which
inspires humanistic cooperation.
具有連續一致性的普世價值與想法 促使人與人之間的合作
the process of collecting the past
透過聽取他人的經驗及故事
以帶給集體更進一步的啓發
lower trigram
The lower trigram does not know that there is
anyone to listen to and everything they hear is
sort of by accident. (lack of the other side)
被動引發 非持續性
higher trigram
has opportunity to recognize the other side
與記憶及密秘有關的閘門 (13 33)
無意識下的傾聽,脫口而出時
也不一定知道自己說了什麼
13.1 Empathy
destructure
一爻土星的累基
時間累積上的變數
集體邏輯迴路 —— low trigram
passive - victim
Venus Exalted
Harmony through affection
Role of openness in listening to others ion.
帶有開放性,真誠的傾聽他人
listen - empathy
Self in its openness for interaction with others, in its
ability to be receptive to others and because this is a
gate that collects history, it collects people’s stories.
Moon Detriment
The politician kissing babies
膚淺的情感,同理心的開放性之中帶有動機
像政客般,但政客也說明了get ready to go out
有動機的聽
true nature of 13rd hexagram
The ability to relate and commune with everyone with
equanimity is something that you learn in the lifetime,
and not something that you learn right away.
一輩子的過程
傾聽者感受到他人帶給自己沉重的的負擔
平靜的與他人産生交流與關連的能力,
這是一輩子的學習課題,而非立馬學會的
13.2 Bigotry 偏執型的同理 -
有選擇性的傾聽與同理
destructure
projection
成長歷程
傾聽的學習
需要長時間累積
時間
需要一段時間退回內在
沉澱自己(內省者的特性)
像在說
我會聽你的故事
長時間容忍
bigotry
不耐煩
火星個人慾求
並非全時間都能進入開放傾聽的
很多時候只觀注自己的事
The risk, always present, that fellowship can
only exist for a particular type, whether racial,
religious, national or intellectual.
傾聽的風險隨時都在,只能與特定的人士達成伙伴關係
如特定的種族、宗教、國家、或意識形態
取(喜),斥(惡)
Moon Exalted
comfort zone ---- 破除過去的障礙 reveal uranus
Tolerance as the least offensive manifestation of bigotry. In
the white book, A role of openness through tolerance.
寛容是Bigotry最不具攻擊性的表現之一
以寛容展現開放性
寛容的二元性
隱微的不情願
課題
Sun Detriment
Consciousness of I
A role of openness so narrow that there is
practically no one worth listening to.
開放性不足 認為沒有人值得被傾聽
deaf no longer to listen
The obsessive belief that the highest ideals
cannot be embraced by the lowest forms.
偏執的認為 低階物種不可能有什麼好的想法
An extreme difficult position where even the
highest ideals provide rationalization for hatred.
極度不利於傾聽的位置
即便再好的想法都會被扭曲
課題
危機及最大的學習 —— 偏見
太陽所帶給集體的 ——
我的故事很重要,但也沒那麼重要
只觀注自己的事,不特別需要什麼
13.3 Pessimism 傾聽時以證據
及不信任為導向的悲觀主義
解構
boundless
策略性思維
欵心重 不信任
求真的證據導向
想要力量
迴避脆弱
聽了一個又一個的故事
每個都不是自己要的 —— 失望
definition
The belief that what is best can
never be achieved.
最好的結果永遠也不可能實現
Earth Exalted
A lack of trust that can only be
transformed through concrete evidence.
傾聽時懷欵缺乏信任,只相信證據
課題
to make sense out of the past helps to
have evidence rather than just speculation
幫助他人為過去理出頭絮,以證據為
導向,而非故事中只有接二連三的懷疑
underlying uncertainties
certain what doesnt work
certain about life's possibility
boundless
為個人了悟生命自由而服務
為幫助他人了解自由性的限制
Openness that is conditioned by
suspicion and seeks evidence.
其開放性受到疑心及證據導向的制約
Venus Detriment
Pessimism exalted to an art form
悲觀躍昇為藝術型式
黑色humour
諷刺看待他人及自己
不執著於過去
玫瑰色的眼鏡,以理論或抽像思維
來合理化同理
從爻線來解構
1 爻 uncertain his foundation
找出不可行
2 爻 uncertain his talent - projection
讓不可行來找自己
事件
欺馾,假像,行不通 ... (尤其 6/3 1/3)
他人對自己不正確的期望
他人看到自己的多疑與悲觀
3爻 uncertain of what doesn't work - the boundary of freedom
13.4 Fatigue
destructure
high trigram
active
unidirectional single minded fixed, jupyter-exploration
The point of exhaustion eventually
reached when one is too tired to fight.
end up recording people
endlessly through listening
heard enough to stop listening
energy type
non-energy type
too focused too fixex
don't know how to stop
Pluto Exalted
The Openness which leads to
exhaustion and the need for silence.
傾聽的開放性最終導致能量耗盡
需要靜默與沉思,以為自己出一點空間
Venus Detriment
金星的取悅
Emotional exhaustion.
Appeasement and withdrawal.
耗盡情緒能量
退縮並姑息他人的索求
A role where openness is a vulnerability
傾聽的開放性成為了自己的弱點
他人情緒低落時會想要找有13的人來幫
他們解除情緒上的負荷,最後使自己耗
盡情緒能量
課題
傾聽完需要靜默與沉思
為自己出一點空間
13.5 Savior
與書上說的無異(補)
story collector
被限制的觀點
同理心是一種開放性 - an openess Self