Attracted to
people who
can satisfy
out unmet
needs
Operant conditioning
Rewards produce
positive feelings.
Learn to find the
person attractive
through
reinforcement of
the reward.
Repeat any
behaviour that
leads to a desirable
outcome. So we
spend more time
with that person
Classical conditioning
Associate
individual with
pleasant event.
Person creates
positive feelings.
Seek their
company more
often
Balance between positive + negative
feelings are important. Positive
feelings must outweigh the negative for
a relationship to form
Mutual attraction occurs
when both individuals
needs are met
AO2
Griffit + Guay
Support the reward part of RSN theory
Found that participants who were
positively evaluated (rewarded)
rated the experimenter high on
how much they liked them.
Shows that
rewards are
important in
determining
relationship
formation
However it is a
laboratory study so
lacks mundane realism
+ cannot be generalised
or applied to real life
Sheldon et al.
Supports the need satisfaction
part of RNS theory
Relationally 'connected'
people used Facebook
because their sociability
motivated them
Relationally 'disconnected' people
used Facebook as a coping strategy
Shows that humans
are social beings +
need companionship.
Fulfilling our needs is
important in forming
a relationship
Contemporary
study + links to
dating websites
(uniform dating).
Findings can be
applied to real life.
Aron et al.
Supporting physiological evidence for an
evolutionary adaption in forming relationships
Found those measured high on a
self-report questionnaire of romantic love
showed strong activity in the ventral
tegmental (rewards part of the brain)
Suggests that the brain
reward system associated
with romantic love evolved
to drive our ancestors
courtship energy on specific
individuals as this speeds up
the mating process.
Shows that rewards are necessary when
forming relationships and is an evolutionary
adaption to help pass on genes.
Lott
Criticises RNS theory as it cannot
explain cultural + gender
differences in relationship formation
Found that in
many cultures
women are
more focused
on the needs of
others rather
then receiving
reinforcement
RNS theory does not take into
account these differences
Suggests that RNS theory is gender + culturally biased
+ ethnocentric so it is not a universal explantation