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1. START - Don’t expect to have a deep spiritual conversation when you first start. Especially with kids that don’t know you. Start small by remembering their names, laughing with them and getting to know their world. We as leaders can learn a lot about our students that way.
2. YOU DON’T HAVE TO KNOW QUESTION- If a student asks a question that you don’t know, send them to a pastor or tell them you will find out and get back with them later.
3. HAVE OBJECTS: Sometimes Small Groups can be distracting if everyone is talking at the same time. Or maybe you have a group that hardly talks at all. Use an object to pass around with the students, ONLY the student holding the object can talk. This helps limit the talking down to one person.
4. TAKE ADVANTAGE OF : If there is one thing that remains true, it’s that Middle Schoolers LOVE food! When you bring snacks and food for your group you are speaking their love language. Also it’s a great way to make students pay attention and participate by promising them a treat such as pizza, chocolate, brownies, etc. the next week if they behave themselves well! Just make sure they clean up behind themselves.
5. RE-DIRECT RABIT TRAILS TO THE .
Never shut down a student for going on a Rabbit Trail. We WANT to hear them talk about what’s on their hearts, but a good leader will take what they have said and bring it back to the point.
6. Always challenge and Encourage students to participate but if they don’t ! Remember, relationships TAKE TIME. Give them time to warm up to you. If you ever deal with a student like this take time to invest in them PERSONALLY outside of small groups. The best way to do this, is to ENGAGE in what they are already doing to create a bond between you and the student.