The father teaches the
narrator how to eat and
introduces her to new
food
Father still remains in control, even
if he is old and dying
The narrator in the poem
recalls being taken out to
dinner as a child
The parents insisted on good
behaivour and etiquette
As he mother grows
old, she becomes very
passive, which is a
surprise to the
narrator - in many
ways, the narrator has
become the parental
figure/role
Skips forward to her parents' old
age and recalls the last meal she ate
with her father before he died, at
which he still took control - despite
being ill
Lexis
Language is quite formal
French indicates
formality and seems
posh
'Heavy' is colloquialism and
emphasises how weak the
father is
By using formal words, it shows the narrator
didn't get on too well with the parents
Characters
Father
Narrator
Mother
Feelings
Shows how
relationships change
over time
Mother was compassionate,
considerate and comforting
Found the father too
autocratic
Father was controlling
When father is dead, the narrator says 'I'll
have whatever you're having dear' as they
were quoting what her father would say
Poetic Techniques
Juxtaposition
Don't normally associate
autocrat's with being humble