it is taken for
granted that the
mother as the
primary caregiver
is the best
scenario for the
mother and child.
It is possible
to train such
sensitivity.
abused children are
more likely to become
abusive parents.
BABY P CASE. - 2008
"MIND-MINDEDNESS" - treat the
child as an individual. helps for
secure attachment.
BOWLBY - QUALITY of
interactions, not
quantity, mother doesn't
have to be there at
every turn.
It's not so much about
the physical availability
but more about the
mother's EMOTIONAL
AVAILABILITY or
responsiveness.
BOWLBY NAMED THIS
MATERNAL
SENSITIVITY. where the
mother recognises and
responds to cues.
an absent mother
cannot be sensitive
enough. a secure
attachment is based on
such sensitivity in the
first year of life. warm /
attentive and positive
parenting links to the
"secure" attachment
type, regardless of
culture.
children of mothers
who are negative and
rejecting are likely to
be
"insecure-avoidant"
children of mothers
who are unreliable or
inconsistent are
likely to be
"insecure-resistant"
depression in a parent is likely to
result in unpleasant behaviours and the
infant is likely to express negative
emotions. "disorganised" attachment is
represented by inadequate care and
mal-treated children.
THE FATHER
RESEARCH started to
include fathers in the 1990s,
found differences in the
quality of attachment
between mothers and fathers.
likely to
show the
same
attachment
type to each
parent.
fathers play a smaller
part in the practical and
emotional aspects of
raising a child, but
more time in PLAY with
infants.
PLAY
SENSITIVITY -
adapting to the
child's play, father
= playmate.
IMPACT OF DAY CARE
placing children in
non-parental care
before the age of
three has a
detrimental effect
on their
attachment.
nowadays mothers
return to work and need
the occasional use of
child-minding
findings in the 70s, -
BELSKY - 1978 - found that
there is no reason to
suspect day care disrupts
the child's attachment and
children still preferred their
mothers.
HOWEVER - BELSKY - 1988 -
out-of-home care for more than
20 hours per week by the end
of first year were more likely to
show insecure attachment to
mothers.
children who are used to
multiple caregivers, their
responses may reflect
independence rather than
avoidance.
patterns of attachment may not be
due to being in day care itself but
more the QUALITY OF DAY CARE,
such as ratio of children to
caregivers, experience and routine.
poorer families are
more likely to settle
for poorer quality
care.
ATTACHMENT
BEYOND
INFANCY
there are lifespan
implications.
INTERNAL WORKING MODEL - child
depends less and less on the physical
proximity of the mother. a child builds up
expectations about others based on early
relationships, which BOWLBY - 1969 -
called the internal working model
internal working models of secure
children will be one of warmth and
attentiveness. and of insecure avoidant
will be of coldness. of insecure-resistant
children will be of inconsistency
insecure- disorganised
lack a coherent IWM.
MAIN ET AL - 1985 - children
who were securely attached
went on to show more emotional
coherence, showed greater
enthusiasm for play, higher
self-esteem, higher school
attainments and more
friendships.
ADULT ATTACHMENT
INTERVIEW - looks at
earliest relationships with
primary caregivers, then
maps onto present
relationship quality. there
is DIRECT MAPPING
from infant to adult
attachment types.
MEASURING
ATTACHMENT
AINSWORTH - 1963 - looked at the
GOAL-CORRECTED mechanism
BOWLBY proposed, where earlier
attachments influence later ones. she
looked at samples from GANDA
people and AMERICANS and found
they both showed typical behaviours
through the attachment phases.
THE STRANGE SITUATION -
AINSWORTH - 1970 - lab setting,
involved the mother and child together
with and without a stranger, and the
departure of the mother with and without a
stranger and the return of the mother with
and without a stranger.
performed when
children are 2
years old. the
situation
activates the
clear
attachments,
particularly in
the REUNIONS.
ATTACHMENT TYPES
- individual children
differed in their
attachment security.
3. INSECURE-
RESISTANT /
AMBIVALENT - great
distress when mother
goes, mixture of
proximity-seeking and
anger. resist stranger
2.
INSECURE-AVOIDANT
- indifferent to the
caregiver's departure.
treat mother and
stranger similarly.
ignoring mother on
return.
1. SECURE
ATTACHMENT -
pausing exploration
when stranger enters,
cry and seek mother,
comforted on return.
4. INSECURE
-DISORGANISED - lack of a
consistent behavioural pattern.
apprehensive about caregiver,
out of their depth. - MAIN AND
SOLOMON - 1990. - found in
dysfunctional / pathological
families
CRITIQUE
OF THE
STRANGE
SITUATION
POSITIVE - practical value of the
strange situation procedure, entering
new spaces, new people and
temporary separation WILL ALL
OCCUR in a child's life around that
age in all cultures. similar to real
experiences. UNIVERSALLY
ADOPTED PROCEDURE.
NEGATIVE - the child has increasing
amounts of stress. HOWEVER, it is
not as stressful as once thought AND
the infant's reponses to these events
may NOT REFLECT THE REAL
degree of attachment to the mother.
for example, the child may be used to
being cared for by others
(grandparents, nursery etc), so not
unsettled by stranger but may STILL
HAVE a strong relationship with
mother.
variations on the secure type
may be due to cultural norms,
for example the UK and
Sweden had the highest
sample of secure children,
only half the chinese were
secure. BEHAVIOURS
INTERPRETED
DIFFERENTLY, e.g. Germany
has high "avoidant" rate, as
the culture encourages
independence.