Laura Wishart resists her father with the courage she gains through Jasper. When that courage falters, so does her sense of belonging.
Charlie and his Dad run to An's house to defend a friend
Acceptance
Charlie accepts the talents that Jeffery has and also accepts what others consider a fault (cricket and ethnicity)
Charlie's Dad accepts his faults and helps him grow stronger
Charlie's Dad accepts his Mothers faults and offers unconditional love
Charlie's Mother is not accepting of his father and does not offer unconditional love. She seeks fulfilment outside the bonds of love
Charlie never feels the need to act stronger or smarter than Jeffery
Support and encouragement
Charlie supports Jeffery with cricket and is happy when he succeeds
Jeffery encourages Charlie and his budding romance with Eliza
Charlie shows interest in his Dad's attempts to write and questions him about his progress
Charlie's Dad accepts his shortcoming and encourages him to grow and develop by modelling desirable traits
Charlie's Mother models anger, frustration and disappointment. She acts selfishly and loses the right to belong
Laura and Eliza Wishart's mother turns a blind eye and offers no support. The family is destroyed and the children turn to outside sources for their sense of belonging.