Feel at ease with the music, the smells, the crowd. You are a part of the group, not an invader.
Tips
Indentify the
Quiet Areas
Dancefloor
Enter On High Intensity
Anotações:
Engage with high intensity (different from high energy) and engage in small talk. Make sure not to peck, make her come to you. Talk loud.
Keep Eye Contact
Vocal Tonality
Anotações:
Talk through her, not at her. Speak from your stomach, do not choke your voice as you raise it.
Body Language
Square Off To Her (?)
Anotações:
Shoulder to shoulder.
Extended Hand Shake
Anotações:
Shake hands or Hi5 as you introduce yourself but keep holding it for as long as possible.
Get Her Off the Dancefloor
Anotações:
As soon as you get a single IOI, get her off the dance floor and onto the quiet area. Make sure to use a time constraint.
Social Proof
Anotações:
Be the guy who knows everyone in the club. You bring the party rather than being the lonely guy trying to get into other people's party.
Wingmen
Female Friends
Chain Reaction
Anotações:
If you don't have female friends with you. Talk to any girl, whether attractive or not, that might seem into you or an easy hook. Then, have her introduce you to her hotter friends, hook one of them. Then take her with you to approach the hottest girl.