The Conflict View cont'd 2
Fears about road safety and ‘stranger danger’ have led to more and more children being driven to school rather than travelling independently. For example, in 1971, 86% of primary school children were allowed to travel home from school alone. By 2010, this had fallen to 25%.
According to Hugh Cunningham (2007), the ‘home habitat’ of 8 year olds (the area in which they are able to travel alone) has shrunk to one-ninth of the size it was 25 years earlier.
This control contrast with the freedoms of children living in developing countries around the world. For example, Cindi Katz (2004) describes how rural Sudanese children roam freely both within the village and for several kilometres outside it.
Control over children's bodiesAdults control how children sit, walk and run, what they wear, their hairstyles and whether or not they can have their ears pierced.
It is taken for granted that children's bodies may be touched by appropriate adults in order that they may be washed, fed and dressed, have their heads patted and hands held, are picked up, cuddled and kissed, and they may be disciplined by smacking.
Adults also restrict they way in which children may touch their own bodies. For example, they may be told not to pick their nose, suck their thumb or play with their genitals.
This contrasts with the sexual freedoms enjoyed by children in some non-industrial cultures such as the Trobriand Islands.
Control over children's time
Adults control the routines in children's lives. For example, they set the times when they get up, eat, go to school, come home, go out, play, watch television and sleep
Adults also control the speed at which children ‘grow up’. It is they who define whether a child is too old or too young for this or that activity, responsibility or behaviour.
This contrasts with Holmes’ finding that among Samoans, ‘too young’ is never given as a reason for not letting a child undertake a particular task.