Adjustment process

Involvement with a child
1. High
  1. Counting entire time one is at home
    1. Exaggerating contribution
  2. Day-to-day activities
2. Low
  1. Mother's lot
  2. Compensation
    1. Works and provides resources
  3. Cannot give mother's love
3. Helping spouse
  1. Cooperation
  2. Prevention of breakdown
Time with a spouse
1. Child took away youth
2. Wanting more
  1. Understanding, patience
    1. Rationalization
3. Enough
Time for oneself
1. Friends
  1. Less time
  2. Less desire
2. Hobbies and activities
  1. Not enough time
  2. Enough time
Work
1. More work
  1. "Workaholism"
2. Same amount of work
3. Different attitude
  1. Have to work more
  2. Working for family
Being inexperienced
1. Searching resources
2. Positive thinking
  1. Persuading oneself
Hardest period
1. Physical
  1. Tiredness
  2. Not enough of sleep
2. Psychological
  1. Exhaustion
  2. "Torture"
  3. "Running away"

Resource summary

	Created by giachernika over 9 years ago