Zusammenfassung der Ressource
Fear of Success
- SIGNS
- Feeling guilty about any
success because
friends/family/co-workers
haven't had same
- Don't tell others
about
accomplishments
- Avoid or
PROCRASTINATE
on big projects,
especially those
that could lead to
recognition
- Frequently
compromise own
goals or agendas
to avoid conflict in
a group or family
- SELF-SABOTAGE
work or dreams by
convincing self that
you're not good
enough to achieve
them
- Feel, subconsciously,
that you don't deserve
to enjoy success
- Believe, that if you do
succeed, you won't be
able to sustain it
- eventually you will
fail, and end up in
a worse place
- so why bother?!
- CAUSES
- Fear of what
success will bring
- loneliness
- new enemies
- isolation from family
- longer working hours
- being asked for favours
- being asked for money
- Afraid the higher we climb
in life the further to fall
- threat of mistakes
- inevitability of mistakes
- Fear of what we
will have to face
- added work
- reponsibiities
- criticism
- Fear of
relationships
suffering
- friends and family
will act with jealousy
and cynicism
- loss of the one's we love
- Fear that accomplishing
goals may cause regret
- that we didn't
act sooner
- that what we have
gone for is not what we
thought it would be
- disappointment